read ann's blog and i would like to repost this
"Sometimes, when you trust someone too much, put in all your efforts, it gets wasted in the end. For some reasons, things don't work out according to logic. They make no sense. Sometimes we feel so disappointed about the things people don't appreciate even when we have done all we could.Gradually, we learn to be a little bit more selfish, a little bit more harsh and cold. We don't give as much, we don't trust as much. Someone comes along and gives you the care and concern you once gave that someone before. But now, you don't feel thankful, you don't really appreciate.That's when you realise, you're becoming like the someone who once hurt you and that person who is caring for you now, was the past you. People are like that, when they get hurt, they bring the scars along to the next person who genuinely cares for them, and the whole process repeats again.How can we ever forget?But please, don't forsake those who really care - they were once like us, they just really care for you. Treat them right because it's not fair for them to suffer because of what someone else did to hurt you in the past."i soo soo sooo agree.its just not fair to carry on what others have done to you to the person that really cares for you now.
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